At the recommendation of my mom, I'm reading this book. She warned me it was pretty out-of-date (it is), but it has some good ideas on rearing children (it does). I'm reading her copy, printed in 1978, if that tells you anything...
I'm not going to tell you the name of the book because it might be controversial. I don't want any mean comments.
I hate mean comments.
Anyway, the first part of the book deals more with the roles of Mommy and Daddy than it does on actual child rearing. I was talking to Kevin about the book and telling him that the overall principles were good, but the examples were totally out-of-date and somewhat ridiculous.
He asked for an example. I proceeded with the following:
"Okay, well the author recommends that women stay attractive for their husbands (good overall principle), but then says that we should fix our hair, makeup, and clothes AND greet him at the door each night. I mean, come on, seriously? After taking care of kids all day, that's really what I am supposed to focus my attention on..."
(I could tell by the look on his face that he actually liked this idea--dang it, I shouldn't have said anything!) Of course, he would NEVER say anything, but I can honestly see why he would enjoy coming home to a put-together woman than a zombie mommy.
So, my dilemma is this...
I really like my sweats. I mean REALLY.After Caleb was born and I decided to stay at home instead of teaching first grade, I still got myself somewhat decently dressed each day. But since Noah's birth,
what is the point? I want to be comfortable and I have a million other things to do besides getting ready. Even when we go somewhere, I don't really care if people see me with glasses, no makeup, and my hair disheveled.
But when I get dressed, I do feel better about myself.
So, here's my solution...
I'm NOT giving up my sweats. I will still continue to wear them. However, come 5:30 I will be dressed in something a little nicer. Like jeans.. :)